Primed by a Mosquito for a New Ministering Assignment

Dr. Rampa Rattanarathikul, mosquito expert, with Jeff and Kendra

Earlier this week I lost some sleep here in Shanghai when a mosquito viewed me as an
all-you-eat buffet. Mosquitoes seem to be more strongly attracted to me
than anyone else around, but it’s largely unrequited affection, though I do marvel at their design. In fact, I am one of the few Americans to not only set foot in the easily overlooked Mosquito Museum (officially the Museum of World Insects and Natural Wonders) in Chiang Mai, Thailand, but to also spend time discussing mosquitoes with the charming woman scientist who built that amazing, quirky place, Dr. Rampa Rattanarathikul, arguably the world’s leading expert on mosquitoes. She is far more positive about the overall role of mosquitoes in the ecosystem than I am.

I was convinced that our Shanghai apartment was mosquito free when I turned the
lights out, I awoke at about 4 AM with an itching arm that had about
three bites. I reached for one of the greatest inventions known to
mankind, the mosquito racquet, a bug zapper that looks like a tennis
racquet. Eventually I grabbed two to double my killing power, yearning
for a soul-satisfying zap. With no luck yet, on went my LED flashlight to support a meticulous
scan of walls, the ceiling, the headboard, pretty much everywhere,
always waving the wand in random places while I searched for signs of a
resting or flying mosquito. I was successful in my secondary goal of not waking my wife, but my zap-and-nap strategy never reached the zap phase.

20 or so minutes of waving and searching, I wondered if I may have
scored a silent kill, and decided to go back to sleep. But first I
applied some DoTERRA grapefruit essential oil, containing a small but
possibly effective amount of nootkatone, the amazing compound
that is vastly more effective than DEET in repelling mosquitoes (though
my friends at DoTERRA didn’t know that). In fact, it can even kill
mosquitoes (though the essential oil I used may not have enough
nootkatone to kill) due to a surprising interaction it has with a
mosquito’s wing regulator system. It causes the regulator system to go
out of control and make the mosquito buzz way too fast until it just
drops dead. Sweet! (Sorry, Dr. Rampa. I still think you are fabulous and admire your lifetime of research on the critters I despise.)

Grapefruit oil is relatively safe on humans but
don’t get it in your eyes or lungs. Like many citrus essential oils, it
can be painful or harmful in the eyes. I can testify of the pain that
grapefruit essential oil causes: a very small amount touched near my eye
caused long-lasting pain the other day that was not quickly reduced by
heavy rinsing with water. Ouch, ouch, ouch! But I still love the smell
and it seems to be effective in warding off mosquitoes, though it is
fairly volatile and might not last terribly long. That’s also a challenge for nootkatone, not to mention its terribly high price (though two companies have developed techniques to make it cheaper, one using bacteria to produce it and another using catalysts to make it from a low-cost orange oil compound).

When I awoke
later, I found that critter on the ceiling. I got it this time. Where
had she been hiding during all my earlier searches?

But the
point of this is what happened after I tried to go back to sleep. At
about 5:15 AM, as recorded by my Pleco Chinese dictionary app’s history
function, I was troubled by an important thought: “You don’t know the
Chinese word for PRIME NUMBER.” Yikes, prime number — I need to know
that word, I thought. Now if you’re like me and enjoy hanging out with
geeks and science fans and people who love to read and learn, you’ve
probably had discussions about prime numbers with other people, oh,
about twice in the past 5 years or so (excluding my wife, a math
teacher, who really enjoys chit chat on all sorts of math issues,
including prime numbers which came up about a month ago when I told her
about the news of a possible but controversial proof of the Riemann Hypothesis).

Really, almost nobody talks about prime numbers in casual conversation. Why would I ever need that word in Chinese? But I did
want to know. “I’m curious, but I can just look it up in the morning.
Time to sleep now.” And then came the thought: “If you don’t look it up
now, you might forget to do it later. Why not just do it now?” I’ve
justified numerous lengthy departures from sleep with that kind of
reasoning and have been trying hard to resist that path, but this time
seemed different. “It will just take a second, if I’m careful.” And so I
looked up the word for prime number. Two different terms, actually, but
apparently zhishu (质数) is the more commonly used one. It could
be translated as “number of substance.” Interesting and logical. Cool.
And then I kept my promise to myself and tried, with eventual and brief
success, to go back to sleep.

A few hours later that morning, I
would get a call from the executive of one of China’s finest private
charities (in my biased opinion), the Huang Yicong Foundation for which I
am delighted to have been recently added as a board member. The
executive director wanted to talk to me. I rushed over to her office on
the same floor where I work. As I sat down, I was touched with a
beautiful Buddhist image attached to the lower portion of her computer
screen. I was struck with this thought: “This faithful Buddhist woman is
serving the same God I worship in her devotion and service to others.” I
reflected briefly upon the goodness in so many faiths and in those who
seek to live higher laws learned through their faith.

She began
by telling me about a challenge among some outstanding students in one
of the schools we support. As she was interacting with these students
recently, she told me, she was asking what their biggest challenges are
in education. English was a key issue. And in her discussion, she
realized that there is vocabulary in English related to many of the
areas that they need to study that they really don’t know. “For
example,” she said, “I asked the students if they knew the English word
for 质数, which is prime number.” “Whoa!” I said. “This morning I had a
strange feeling that I needed to look up the word for prime number.
Look, here it is in my Pleco dictionary. There is the search for prime
number at 5:15 AM. Zhishu. Never needed it once in my seven years
here, and now after that strange experience, here you are talking to me
about prime numbers. So strange. Anyway, whatever you are about to ask
me, I think it’s going to be important.” And it was.

wanted to ask me and my wife if we could spend some time at least
monthly or more often if possible doing a videoconference with those
special students to help them improve their English while also using
helping them with vocabulary related to math and other fields they are
studying. We also may be going there to visit them. Time has been tight
recently, but I think we can do this and we both would love to help, and
now my Chinese teacher, touched by this story, has also volunteered to
help. I saw the class today in a brief initial videoconference and was
impressed with the sharp, sweet, and well-behaved group.

particular significance to me was the way she presented this assignment
to me. It was done it a personal interview. It began with a discussion
of the particular strengths and needs of the people I would be assigned
to. It was done with love, respect, and charity. I should have asked
that fine leader if she had been reading the new LDS materials on
ministering, because she delivered the assignment in exactly the right
way. Those materials, available in the Ministering section of the LDS
Library App, emphasize that assignments to minister should be given
in a personal interview that includes discussing not just the needs of
those involved, but also their strengths
. She did it perfectly, lovingly, and so effectively. What a great example to follow. I marvel at her natural leadership and ministering skills.

look forward to seeing where this assignment leads us. How interesting
that an annoying sleep-depriving critter and a coincidence involving
prime numbers could play a role in awaking me to the significance of a
leader’s thoughtful assignment. I hope I can live up to this

Related post: “Two Words that Finally Helped Me Grasp the Genius of the New Ministering Program

Author: Jeff Lindsay

2 thoughts on “Primed by a Mosquito for a New Ministering Assignment

  1. Wow, I felt compelled to read this whole story not knowing where it was going. Finally at the end it hit me, I need to step up my leadership skills. I recently invited a new elder to minister to a couple of families, but I did it over the phone due to work travel. Thanks for the reminder that it should be in a personal interview!

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